{"id":41528,"date":"2023-11-20T09:42:40","date_gmt":"2023-11-20T06:42:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.turkishpost.net\/ar\/?p=41528"},"modified":"2023-11-20T15:51:40","modified_gmt":"2023-11-20T12:51:40","slug":"mercan-bulut-yazdi-genc-intiharlarinin-artmasi-ve-toplumun-duyarsizligi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.turkishpost.net\/ar\/mercan-bulut-yazdi-genc-intiharlarinin-artmasi-ve-toplumun-duyarsizligi\/","title":{"rendered":"Mercan Bulut yazd\u0131… Gen\u00e7 intiharlar\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131 ve toplumun duyars\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"

(The Turkish Post) –\u00a0MERCAN\u00a0 BULUT<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kar\u015f\u0131mda gencecik, daha hayat\u0131n\u0131n bahar\u0131nda bir k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu yat\u0131yor. Bu yavrucak benim bir dostumun \u00e7ocu\u011fu. Bir duvar\u0131n k\u00f6\u015fesinde o ve e\u015fi, kuytu bir yerdeyse biz h\u00fcng\u00fcr h\u00fcng\u00fcr a\u011fl\u0131yoruz. Daha birka\u00e7 hafta \u00f6nce canl\u0131 kanl\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm \u00e7ocuk kar\u015f\u0131mda sessizce kald\u0131r\u0131ma sar\u0131lm\u0131\u015f yat\u0131yor! Y\u00fcz\u00fcne bile bakam\u0131yorum. Hele dostumun y\u00fcz\u00fcne hi\u00e7 bakam\u0131yorum. Biz minik yavrumuza el birli\u011fi ile sahip \u00e7\u0131kamad\u0131k. Bizim duyars\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan dolay\u0131 o can\u0131na k\u0131yd\u0131. Belki de o bizleri her g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde g\u00f6zlerimizin i\u00e7ine bakarak, \u2018bana yard\u0131m edin\u2019 diye \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131k att\u0131. Biz ise y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck bir g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemeye inan\u0131p, onu tek ba\u015f\u0131na b\u0131rakt\u0131k. \u015eimdi o so\u011fuk topra\u011f\u0131n koynunda. Hem de gece so\u011fu\u011fun -10 dereceye d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc bir ortamda tek ba\u015f\u0131na b\u0131rakt\u0131k. Bunun sorumlusu biziz. Bizler gen\u00e7lerin dilinden anlamamaya devam ettik\u00e7e, onlar hayattan kopmaya devam edecek. Belki de seslerini \u00f6yle duyuracak biz duyars\u0131z insanlara.<\/p>\n

Kim bilir!<\/p>\n

Toplumsal ve sosyal ger\u00e7ekleri dile getiren yaz\u0131lar zordur. Hem yazan\u0131 hem de okuyan\u0131 psikolojik olarak yorar. \u0130nsan nereden ba\u015flayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, noktay\u0131 nereye koyaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bile tahayy\u00fcl edemez. G\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ger\u00e7ekler kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda derin buhranlar ya\u015far. \u00d6nce kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda maktul\u00fcn canl\u0131 foto\u011fraf\u0131na bakar derin derin. Ard\u0131ndan da \u00f6n\u00fcnde y\u00fcz\u00fckoyun cans\u0131z yatan bedene bakar. Asl\u0131nda iki bedende ayn\u0131 ki\u015fiye aittir. Ancak son kare insan\u0131n zihninde derin yaralar b\u0131rak\u0131r. Daha \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn bahar\u0131nda k\u00f6rpecik bir k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu kar\u015f\u0131nda yatmaktad\u0131r. Sanki derin bir uykuya yatm\u0131\u015f\u00e7as\u0131na. Kimse onu o uykusunda uyand\u0131ramaz. Birka\u00e7 saat \u00f6nce hayat dolu bu k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu hayat ad\u0131na b\u00fct\u00fcn ya\u015fam damarlar\u0131n\u0131 kesmi\u015ftir. Nedeni bilinmeyen bir gerek\u00e7eden dolay\u0131. Bizim i\u00e7in olmasa da onu o u\u00e7uruma g\u00f6t\u00fcren bir gerek\u00e7e vard\u0131r elbette ki. Asl\u0131nda gen\u00e7 k\u0131z\u0131n hayattan kopmas\u0131n\u0131n tek nedeni o de\u011fil. Onun sorumlusu hepimiziz. Toplumun duyars\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131, tepkisizli\u011fi ve gen\u00e7lerin dilinden anlamamas\u0131 bu sebeplerden sadece birka\u00e7\u0131. Ne var ki, gen\u00e7 intiharlar\u0131na her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn yenileri ekleniyor. Bu duyars\u0131zl\u0131k devam etti\u011fi s\u00fcrece artmaya da devam edecek. Toplumda duyars\u0131z timsah g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131 akmaya devam edecek. Kim bilir, bunun sorumlular\u0131 birka\u00e7 s\u00fcsl\u00fc c\u00fcmlelerle gencin arkas\u0131nda methiyeler dizecek.<\/p>\n

Uzaklardan T\u00fcrkiye\u2019yi izlemekten kendimi alam\u0131yorum. Nas\u0131l uzak kalabilirim ki. Y\u0131llarca do\u011fup b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm \u00fclkemin gencecik fidanlar\u0131 g\u00f6zlerimin \u00f6n\u00fcnden kay\u0131p gidiyor. Ama benim elimden bir \u015feyler gelmiyor. Ailelerini tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u00e7in, bir telefon edip ac\u0131lar\u0131na bile ortak olam\u0131yorum. Tek yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u015fey, gen\u00e7lerin yere kapaklanm\u0131\u015f foto\u011fraflar\u0131na bak\u0131p i\u00e7li i\u00e7li a\u011flamak oluyor. Di\u011fer yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131msa, en sevdi\u011fim i\u015fi yap\u0131p arkalar\u0131ndan birka\u00e7 sat\u0131r yaz\u0131 yazmak oluyor. Ama bu yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131mla ne onlar\u0131n ne de ailelerin ac\u0131lar\u0131na ortak olamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 biliyorum. Belki de vicdan\u0131m\u0131 rahatlatmak i\u00e7in kaleme ve ka\u011f\u0131da sar\u0131l\u0131yorum. Ama samimi olarak ifade edeyim ki, her gencin intihar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda kalbim parampar\u00e7a oluyor. Gece yar\u0131lar\u0131 tek kald\u0131\u011f\u0131mda ya da arabam\u0131n i\u00e7ine kendimi att\u0131\u011f\u0131mda h\u00fcng\u00fcr h\u00fcng\u00fcr a\u011fl\u0131yorum. Uzaklardan dahi olsa bir \u015fey yapamaman\u0131n derin acziyetini ya\u015f\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n

Bu gen\u00e7 karde\u015flerimizin intihar\u0131 son d\u00f6nemde o kadar artt\u0131 ki. \u0130nternet \u00fczerinden arama yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda son bir hafta i\u00e7inde Ankara ve \u0130stanbul\u2019da 5 \u00fcniversite \u00f6\u011frencisi intihar etmi\u015f. Bu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n hepsi ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131. T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de derece yapm\u0131\u015flar. Hacettepe, Gazi, Bilkent ve Marmara gibi T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin g\u00f6z nuru \u00fcniversitelerinde okumaya hak kazanm\u0131\u015flar. Ama gel gelelim ki, daha okullar\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerinden bir ay gibi bir s\u00fcre ge\u00e7meden gencecik fidanlar topra\u011fa serilmi\u015f ard\u0131 ard\u0131na.<\/p>\n

K\u0131z ya da erkek fark etmiyor. \u0130simlerinin bir anlam\u0131 bile yok. Ama bu \u00e7ocuklar T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin gelece\u011fi. B\u00fcy\u00fck emekler sarf ederek, gecesini g\u00fcnd\u00fcz\u00fcne katarak kazand\u0131lar bu okullar\u0131. Ama ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n tad\u0131n\u0131 dahi \u00e7\u0131karamadan bir anda hayattan \u00fcmitlerini kestiler. Neden? Bu \u00e7ocuklar intihar gibi Allah\u2019\u0131n en sevmedi\u011fi bir yola ba\u015fvurmak zorunda kald\u0131lar. Ekonomik sebepler, g\u00f6n\u00fcl durumlar\u0131, aile ge\u00e7imsizlikleri ve toplumsal bask\u0131lar bunun temel nedenleri aras\u0131nda yer al\u0131yor. Ama sayd\u0131\u011f\u0131m sorunlar\u0131n merkezinde yine toplum var. \u00c7evremizdeki insanlar\u0131n duyars\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131, gen\u00e7leri yok saymas\u0131 ve toplumda anla\u015f\u0131lamama d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi onlar\u0131 hayat damarlar\u0131n\u0131 kesmelerine neden oluyor. Allah a\u015fk\u0131na soruyorum herkese\u2026 Bir can bu kadar ucuz olabilir mi?<\/p>\n

Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun yeti\u015ftirilmesindeki me\u015fakkatler hepimizin malumu. Aya\u011f\u0131na bir diken batt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bile uykular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ka\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131 evlatlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n cans\u0131z bedenlerini televizyon ekranlar\u0131na seyretmek hi\u00e7 kimseye dokunmuyor mu? \u00dcniversiteler, vak\u0131flar, dernekler ya da kamu kurumlar\u0131 gen\u00e7 intiharlar\u0131n\u0131n ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 i\u00e7in neden birlik olmaz? Bunun siyaseti olmaz Allah a\u015fk\u0131na! Siyasi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimizi ve farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bir kenara koyal\u0131m. Gen\u00e7 karde\u015flerimizin \u00f6l\u00fcmlerinin \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7elim. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onlar bizim gelece\u011fimiz. Bu kadar duyars\u0131z kalmayal\u0131m. Kim bilir bug\u00fcn yurt odas\u0131nda can\u0131na k\u0131yan, ya da odas\u0131n\u0131n cam\u0131ndan onlarca metre bo\u015flu\u011fa atlatan \u00e7ocuklardan biri bizim yak\u0131n\u0131mda olabilir. Gen\u00e7lerimizin neden hayattan \u00fcmitlerini kesti\u011fini \u00f6\u011frenmeye, onlar\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fal\u0131m. Belki sahile vuran bir denizy\u0131ld\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 yeniden suya kavu\u015ftururuz.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

(The Turkish Post) –\u00a0MERCAN\u00a0 BULUT Kar\u015f\u0131mda gencecik, daha hayat\u0131n\u0131n bahar\u0131nda bir k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu yat\u0131yor. Bu yavrucak benim bir dostumun \u00e7ocu\u011fu. Bir duvar\u0131n k\u00f6\u015fesinde o ve e\u015fi, kuytu bir yerdeyse biz h\u00fcng\u00fcr h\u00fcng\u00fcr a\u011fl\u0131yoruz. Daha birka\u00e7 hafta \u00f6nce canl\u0131 kanl\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm \u00e7ocuk kar\u015f\u0131mda sessizce kald\u0131r\u0131ma sar\u0131lm\u0131\u015f yat\u0131yor! Y\u00fcz\u00fcne bile bakam\u0131yorum. Hele dostumun y\u00fcz\u00fcne hi\u00e7 bakam\u0131yorum. Biz […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":41537,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":{"source_name":"","source_url":"","via_name":"","via_url":"","override_template":"0","override":[{"template":"1","single_blog_custom":"","parallax":"1","fullscreen":"1","layout":"right-sidebar","sidebar":"default-sidebar","second_sidebar":"default-sidebar","sticky_sidebar":"1","share_position":"topbottom","share_float_style":"share-monocrhome","show_share_counter":"0","show_view_counter":"0","show_featured":"1","show_post_meta":"1","show_post_author":"0","show_post_author_image":"1","show_post_date":"1","post_date_format":"default","post_date_format_custom":"Y\/m\/d","show_post_category":"0","show_post_reading_time":"1","post_reading_time_wpm":"300","show_zoom_button":"1","zoom_button_out_step":"4","zoom_button_in_step":"4","show_post_tag":"1","show_prev_next_post":"0","show_popup_post":"1","number_popup_post":"2","show_author_box":"1","show_post_related":"1","show_inline_post_related":"0"}],"override_image_size":"0","image_override":[{"single_post_thumbnail_size":"crop-715","single_post_gallery_size":"crop-500"}],"trending_post":"0","trending_post_position":"meta","trending_post_label":"Trending","sponsored_post":"0","sponsored_post_label":"Sponsored by","sponsored_post_name":"","sponsored_post_url":"","sponsored_post_logo_enable":"0","sponsored_post_logo":"","sponsored_post_desc":"","disable_ad":"0"},"jnews_primary_category":{"id":"3904","hide":""},"jnews_override_bookmark_settings":{"override_bookmark_button":"0","override_show_bookmark_button":"0"},"jnews_social_meta":{"fb_title":"","fb_description":"","fb_image":"","twitter_title":"","twitter_description":"","twitter_image":""},"jnews_override_counter":{"override_view_counter":"0","view_counter_number":"0","override_share_counter":"0","share_counter_number":"0","override_like_counter":"0","like_counter_number":"0","override_dislike_counter":"0","dislike_counter_number":"0"},"footnotes":""},"categories":[3904,1],"tags":[9542,5775,2276,9543,9541,315],"class_list":["post-41528","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-haber-yorum","category-son-haberler","tag-duyarsiz","tag-genc","tag-intihar","tag-mercan-bulut","tag-toplum","tag-ust-manset"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.turkishpost.net\/ar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41528","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.turkishpost.net\/ar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.turkishpost.net\/ar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.turkishpost.net\/ar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.turkishpost.net\/ar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=41528"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.turkishpost.net\/ar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41528\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.turkishpost.net\/ar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/41537"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.turkishpost.net\/ar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=41528"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.turkishpost.net\/ar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=41528"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.turkishpost.net\/ar\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=41528"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}